LIFE....As we call it!!

I never ever planned to write my first blog post on something so common and usual.Unless my mind transferred me to the image of a face of a dearest one,who was fighting tumour & had only a few days to live. The days when she took my hand into hers n bravely joked about how she shouldn't have lived life so badly.In her eyes and talks,i could see a regret.Regret for the things she had never made time to do,places she had never visited..Her list went on..And of course,the sorrow for the loss of future experiences. Against all odds,she was wanting,if at all possible,to live again....
So i dedicate my first post to all the readers who have preferred to turn this 4 LETTERED WORD into a shell. A shell full of fears,failures,worries.Dekho yaar,all people on this earth,tall or short,arrogant or unassuming,rich or poor,friendly or cold,have one characteristic in common: they all have their own share of problems. Some of them try to hide by talking loudly,some choose to play a "all's well false card", the more inhibited cannot hide their feelings & start drinking to see if they can drive their fear away and the worst of them,who just hatch a secret plan to end up their lives!
But the big question is-they are afraid of what? Failing in an exam,going broke,a break-up,losing a job,a marriage that didn't work or listening to malicious comments of those friends who,never have done anything themselves,can only see other people's failures????
We all can choose either to be a victim of the world & its problems or to live a life to its best as if today were our  first(or last) day.Its just a metter of  how we view our lives! The former ones think that the intelligent thing to do would be to avoid the ups & downs and spend all their time on a carousel,going round n round.



In the matters of search for happiness,we all are equal- a millioniare,a doctor,a banker,writer,a superstar,or anyone in that case..No one wants their life to be thrown into a chaos.But the first thing,we need to do is free ourselves from something that cost our hearts anything more than the job of pumping blood..There could be times when at one moment,you have nothing and the next,you have more than u can cope up with!

That's called Life- a fast dizzying game, a parachute jump, its taking chances, falling over & getting up again, its wanting to get to the very top of urself and to feel angry & dissatisfied when you can't manage it....
But above all,its about LIVING ( remember just being alive is bad for the health),its about BEING HAPPY and never letting anything under the sun hold back your happiness. 


Life is too short to allow ourselves the luxury of living it badly. So follow your dreams,do whatever your heart says(even if the world calls you an idiot)..
SO THAT THE DAY OF YOUR DEPARTURE FROM THIS EARTH SHOULD BE THE LOVELIEST FAREWELL EVER!!!